MAKING ADVANCES: SOME POINTERS FOR MEN

Posted by admin on March 20, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction | Be the First to Comment

Social responsiveness is not the same as sexual encouragement. And invitations can be misunderstood. For instance, when you’re invited to a lady’s home for the first time and told to make yourself comfortable, do you remove your jacket, loosen your tie and lounge on the sofa? Do you allow your anticipation to show and then, when the lady returns in jeans and an old shirt, do you feel an absolute fool when she says, “What do you think you’re doing, moving in? I’ve got to finish putting up my bookshelves. You can get yourself a drink before letting yourself out.”

Nor should you expect every single encounter to lead to great romance or sex. If you get too serious or expect a woman to give you more than she is prepared to, you will probably make her retreat. Many women prefer a softer approach to an overtly sexual come-on, and it is not a good idea to be familiar too soon. Express your admiration and interest but stay away from endearments or physical caresses at first.