HOW TO BECOME A BETTER LOVER – FAKE ORGASM 2

Posted by admin on March 11, 2009 under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction | Be the First to Comment

Most men do not know if their sexual partner has a real or a faked orgasm unless they are sufficiently relaxed to be able to talk to each other about their sexuality. A man may agree that other men may not know, but that he knows when his partner comes. He may say that it is easy to tell: as he thrusts urgently with his penis in her vagina, she tightens her legs and pelvic muscles, she scratches his back or bites his lip, she moans ecstatically, she writhes about and arches her back. A few women do this when having an orgasm, but the majority do not moan, and certainly do not writhe about or arch their back. During orgasm, most women, at first, become still and rather rigid, with tense muscles as the intense, deep-felt pleasure of orgasm surges up from the pelvic area to envelop them. Only later in orgasm does movement occur, and then not always. One of Shere Hite’s respondents wrote, ‘I don’t move convulsively the way women in books do. I don’t know if anyone does. I just hold on tight. Sometimes it bothers me when a man hasn’t been able to tell that I climaxed.’