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• Can she move so that stimulation remains good?
• Does it allow her to see her partner?
• Is it comfortable during the latter stages of pregnancy?
• Can she or her partner reach her clitoris easily?
• Does it allow her to kiss her partner and hold him close?
• Will it stimulate her G-spot?
• Is it comfortable?
• Does it allow her partner to reach her breasts?
• When in the position, can she reach down and touch her partner’s scrotum?
• Is it good for cuddling?
• Does it allow good skin contact?
• Is it good for conception?
• What sort of penetration does it allow – shallow or deep – and is it the sort she wants?
• Is it good for learning sex with a new or shy partner?
• Does it stimulate the back or front vaginal wall?
• Does it allow her to take a dominant (or submissive) role?
• Can she look into her partner’s eyes and speak to him?
Often, when couples whose sex life has gone off the boil consult me about making improvements, one of the first questions I ask is whether they vary the way they make love. Many of these couples have tied themselves to a single position for lovemaking, and it has simply become boring. The missionary position with the man on top and the woman underneath is most commonly used and, for some couples, never varied. (It is so-named because it was forcibly advocated by missionaries who took their faith to “heathen” or “uncivilized” peoples.) For many years the church tolerated this position and no other, since it was thought to be the one in which the woman would almost certainly be fertilized. This rigidly adhered-to tradition allowed the man always to adopt the dominant role during sexual intercourse and to experience most or all of the pleasure of sex.
But between consenting lovers, all coital positions are perfectly normal and legitimate, and everyone’s sex lives will certainly be enlivened by a little adventure and experimentation.
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For numerous people, the anus and its surrounding area are very sensitive sexually, and for some it is their most erogenous zone. The anal region is well supplied with nerves that follow a similar pathway to the nerves supplying the penis and vagina. Anal stimulation, therefore, gives deep feelings of sexual pleasure unobtainable in other ways, and adds variety to lovemaking. Orgasm that occurs as a result of anal penetration is thought by many to be exceptionally exquisite.
The most basic form of anal stimulation is merely touching your partner’s anus during intercourse or oral sex. This is an activity known as “postillionage”. More sensation can be produced by inserting a finger into the rectum. When doing this, always lubricate your finger first, and make sure your nail isn’t jagged or you could cause harm. Never do this if you have any infection on your finger or hand.
Another technique, gluteal sex, involves the man using the crease of the woman’s buttocks as an alternative to the vagina. If the woman contracts her gluteal muscles and rotates her pelvis, the man can thrust into there and reach orgasm this way.
Anal penetration carries with it the risk of AIDS, and if performed over a long time, can lead to stretching of the anal sphincter, which could lead to incontinence. However, the illicit overtones of the act (it is illegal in many parts of the world), the dominant and submissive qualities inherent in it, and the particular sensations it inspires are, to its practitioners, alluring and attractive reasons for indulging in it, and quite a few heterosexuals do.
Stimulating a Woman-Using very gentle pressure, insert a well lubricated finger into the rectum or move it gently in and out. Keep the heel of your hand pressed firmly between the anus and the vulva. As you apply pressure from the outside, ask your partner to bear down on your finger. This may help to tighten up the anal sphincter deliberately, and then let it relax.
For reasons of hygiene, once you have inserted your finger into the rectum, keep it well away from the vagina, and make sure that you wash it thoroughly immediately afterwards.
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Women enjoy kissing very much, and most complain that they don’t get enough of it – too many men proceed to genital touching far too soon. Women enjoy a rather gradual progression to the genitals, and like having their ears, necks, shoulders, breasts, stomachs, inner thighs, knees and feet kissed along the way. Women also use kissing as a way of initiating sex and stimulating interest in their partners.
Simple kisses on the lips can be quite delicious but many women enjoy deep
tongue-to-tongue kisses and hard, prolonged kisses on the lips. You will be almost certain to arouse your partner by kissing and caressing certain areas such as the back of her neck, her hair, ears, cheeks and eyelids. Use deep, sensuous kisses to stimulate your partners lips and tongue and the inside of her mouth. Tantalize her by flicking your tongue in and out of her mouth and try to have your tongues touching.
Gentle biting and nibbling can be highly erotic as well, but its best to avoid “love bites” on the genitals, which are highly sensitive and may be damaged or caused excessive pain, and on the breasts, where gentle sucking is more widely preferred. Some women can even reach orgasm this way. And for many women, kissing can be an end in itself.
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Social responsiveness is not the same as sexual encouragement. And invitations can be misunderstood. For instance, when you’re invited to a lady’s home for the first time and told to make yourself comfortable, do you remove your jacket, loosen your tie and lounge on the sofa? Do you allow your anticipation to show and then, when the lady returns in jeans and an old shirt, do you feel an absolute fool when she says, “What do you think you’re doing, moving in? I’ve got to finish putting up my bookshelves. You can get yourself a drink before letting yourself out.”
Nor should you expect every single encounter to lead to great romance or sex. If you get too serious or expect a woman to give you more than she is prepared to, you will probably make her retreat. Many women prefer a softer approach to an overtly sexual come-on, and it is not a good idea to be familiar too soon. Express your admiration and interest but stay away from endearments or physical caresses at first.
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The speed of response by the clitoris depends on whether it is stimulated directly or indirectly. The most rapid response depends on direct stimulation of the clitoral body or the mons area. Indirect stimulation, which includes manipulation of other erogenous zones such as the breasts or vagina, without direct clitoral contact, has a definite but certainly slower response.
The only form of direct stimulation is touch – by the fingers, mouth or erect penis — and most women require touch in addition to penetration to achieve orgasm. Because of its position, the clitoris is not stimulated directly during intercourse, so movements of the penis on its own are often insufficient to excite the clitoris to orgasm. However, indirect stimulation of the clitoris does develop with penile thrusting, the body being pulled downwards and then the hood being released. Desire begins in the brain, which then sends messages to the body that result in a variety of changes indicating arousal. Arousal, if prolonged sufficiently, leads to climax, and with orgasm, muscular tension is released and the flow of blood to the pelvis is reversed.
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